{"id":17533,"date":"2024-09-03T11:27:16","date_gmt":"2024-09-03T11:27:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/newsx48.info\/?p=17533"},"modified":"2024-09-03T11:27:16","modified_gmt":"2024-09-03T11:27:16","slug":"17533","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/newsx48.info\/?p=17533","title":{"rendered":""},"content":{"rendered":"

My father left my mum and me, and has been very inconsistent. He married Tammy when I was young, and she has never liked me. She was also never able to have kids. So when I gave birth my mum\u2019s side of the family came over to visit and meet Willow and look after both of us. Nothing from my dad or Tammy.\u201d The stepmother made a shocking revelation when she finally came to visit.\u201cSo two weeks ago they turn up unannounced claiming to be \u2018in the area on holiday\u2019 and wanted to meet Willow. She was getting a bit fussy, and she was combination fed, but as I was home I grabbed a cover and let her latch onto me. Tammy says the breastfeeding will have to stop soon, I\u2019m confused and ask her why, and she said it couldn\u2019t be kept up when Willow is with them. Now I\u2019m even more confused and I ask what is she on about. She shows me photos of a baby room and says that we should split custody of Willow and not to worry, and she has everything set up already.\u201dThe stepmother\u2019s motives were completely outrageous.\u201cI just stare at her, but she carries on. Claiming that the age gap between myself and Marco is unhealthy for a child to grow up with, saying it was obvious I needed help, and she was happy to, and mostly that I was obviously more bothered about working than staying home with my baby, so I should just let her have Willow. But obviously she wasn\u2019t able to breastfeed, so we would have to stop that now. I tell her she can\u2019t be serious and think I\u2019m giving her my baby, and she tells me to calm down, she\u2019s not asking for full custody, but she could provide a much calmer and stabler home and that I could always visit. She said it\u2019s what she deserves.\u201d The new parents\u2019 reaction was entirely expected.\u201cMarco pushed everyone out and made sure Willow and I were alright. Since then I\u2019ve been really weirded out and been getting texts from my father saying I need to let Tammy prove herself as a good caregiver. And Tammy has been sending loads of photos of the nursery she has made. Just to add so people don\u2019t get confused. I\u2019m in Italy but Tammy isn\u2019t. They had flown over here. My dad isn\u2019t actually on my birth certificate so I think that limits his \u2018grandparents rights\u2019 claim, my mum is our nominated guardian for Willow if anything happens to us it\u2019s written in a will, and Willow goes to the daycare in the hospital we both work at.\u201d Almost all people in comments suggested to make all possible actions for safety of her family.Seriously?! That\u2019s a crazy you need to get as far away from as possible. She hasn\u2019t done anything to warrant a protection order, but get prepared for more.Contact the police where she lives. And social services there too. And a lawyer \u2014 you need to put it on record now that should anything happen to you they do not get custody (or access, if possible) to your child.Do reach out to the appropriate authorities, inform daycare \/ babysitters that no one else than you or your husband can pick up your kiddo, no exceptions! And install security cameras. This is insane.Starting a new relationship can be hard for everyone in the family. It can be tough to get along with a new partner, and communicating with an ex can make things even more complicated. Everyone needs to be patient and understanding to make it work.<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

My father left my mum and me, and has been very inconsistent. He married Tammy when I was young, and she has never liked me. She was also never able to have kids. So when I gave birth my mum\u2019s side of the family came over to visit and meet Willow and look after both…<\/p>\n

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