{"id":17715,"date":"2024-09-09T11:57:46","date_gmt":"2024-09-09T11:57:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/newsx48.info\/?p=17715"},"modified":"2024-09-09T11:57:46","modified_gmt":"2024-09-09T11:57:46","slug":"17715","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/newsx48.info\/?p=17715","title":{"rendered":""},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>. Wanting a photo of late husband in something like this, alongside other late family members would be entirely appropriate. But holding a photo, having the photo on the main table etc is just\u2026 no.My dad died suddenly 10 years ago and my step-mom and I both took it really hard. If my step-mom ever marries again, I would find it very strange if she insisted on having my dad\u2019s picture there, the way OP\u2019s fianc\u00e9e is requesting. I don\u2019t think OP\u2019s fianc\u00e9e is ready. Maybe she feels guilty for moving on and this somehow relieves her guilt?Widow here! I think this person has way more work to do on their grief journey before they\u2019re ready for a new relationship, let alone a new marriage.I became a widow at 36. She aint ready. NTA. I suggest some therapy for her and both of you (like pre-marriage stuff).She\u2019s still grieving a dead husband this outwardly, she is not ready. If it were a \u201cHey do you think we could do a memorial board with photos of family that cant make it because they\u2019re not here? And would it be okay to put photo up to respect his memory too?\u201d That\u2019d be different, as its not just the dead husband being remembered. But to be this way? She needs greif counseling.Marriage is full of surprises, so it\u2019s crucial to have honest conversations about key aspects of your past before tying the knot. This way, you won\u2019t be caught off guard by unexpected secrets later on. Open dialogue helps build trust and understanding from the start.<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>. Wanting a photo of late husband in something like this, alongside other late family members would be entirely appropriate. But holding a photo, having the photo on the main table etc is just\u2026 no.My dad died suddenly 10 years ago and my step-mom and I both took it really hard. If my step-mom ever&#8230;<\/p>\n<p class=\"more-link-wrap\"><a href=\"https:\/\/newsx48.info\/?p=17715\" class=\"more-link\">Read More<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &ldquo;&rdquo;<\/span> &raquo;<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/newsx48.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17715"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/newsx48.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/newsx48.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/newsx48.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/newsx48.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=17715"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/newsx48.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17715\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":17716,"href":"https:\/\/newsx48.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17715\/revisions\/17716"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/newsx48.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=17715"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/newsx48.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=17715"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/newsx48.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=17715"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}