{"id":31853,"date":"2025-11-23T17:27:18","date_gmt":"2025-11-23T17:27:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/newsx48.info\/?p=31853"},"modified":"2025-11-23T17:27:18","modified_gmt":"2025-11-23T17:27:18","slug":"31853","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/newsx48.info\/?p=31853","title":{"rendered":""},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Brad, a thirty-four-year-old regional sales manager for a pharmaceutical company, made good money, drove a Lexus, and belonged to a gym he never went to. He was also controlling, volatile, and profoundly mean. I\u2019d noticed it at family dinners\u2014the way he talked to Emma, the little comments that seemed harmless on the surface but landed like a thousand tiny cuts.\u00a0<span class=\"ng-star-inserted\">\u201cYou\u2019re wearing that?\u201d \u201cMaybe if you cooked like my mother, the kids would actually eat.\u201d \u201cCan you not embarrass me in front of people?\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Emma would laugh them off, make excuses, change the subject. But I saw the way her shoulders tensed, the way her smile never quite reached her eyes. The boys were different around Brad, too. Quieter, more careful, as if they were walking on a floor made of glass.<\/p>\n<p>Three months ago, they\u2019d shown up at my door for the first time. It was the same scenario: late night, locked out. Emma and Brad had been fighting, their screams echoing through the neighborhood. The boys got scared and hid in the backyard playhouse. When they tried to come back inside, the door was locked. They\u2019d waited twenty minutes, knocked, and called out. Nobody answered. So, they walked to my house, six blocks at 11:00 p.m. in September.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019d kept them overnight and called Emma the next morning.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cOh my God, Mark, I\u2019m so sorry,\u201d she\u2019d said, her voice thick with feigned panic. \u201cWe didn\u2019t hear them. We were just exhausted and fell asleep.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThey were locked out, Emma.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt was an accident. They shouldn\u2019t have gone outside in the first place.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThey were scared. You and Brad were screaming at each other.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>A long silence. \u201cWe\u2019re working through some things,\u201d she\u2019d said finally. \u201cMarriage is hard.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThis isn\u2019t about your marriage. This is about your kids being safe.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThey\u2019re fine, Mark. Stop being so dramatic.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Two weeks later, it happened again. This time, Brad had answered when I called. \u201cThey need to learn not to wander off,\u201d he\u2019d said, his voice cold and flat. \u201cMaybe next time, they\u2019ll think twice before leaving the house without permission.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThey\u2019re six and eight, Brad! They can\u2019t be locked outside as a form of punishment!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI\u2019m their father. I\u2019ll discipline them however I see fit.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThis isn\u2019t discipline, it\u2019s neglect!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>He\u2019d hung up on me. I\u2019d let it go, telling myself Emma would handle it, that she\u2019d protect her kids. But now, sitting in my living room at 4:00 a.m., watching Jake and Tommy shake under blankets while they sipped hot chocolate, I realized she wouldn\u2019t. And I was done waiting.<\/p>\n<hr class=\"ng-star-inserted\" \/>\n<p>The boys fell asleep on my couch around 5:30 a.m., exhausted from their ordeal. I took photos first. Their wet pajamas, their red, cold-chapped hands, Jake\u2019s bare feet with dirt and grass stuck to them. I opened the metadata on my phone, confirmed the timestamp\u20144:17 a.m.\u2014and saved everything to a cloud folder I labeled \u201cEvidence.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Then I went to my bedroom and made the call I should have made months ago.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIllinois DCFS, emergency hotline. This is Monica speaking. How can I help you?\u201d a woman\u2019s voice answered, calm and professional.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cMy name is Mark Sullivan. I need to report child endangerment.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cCan you describe the situation, sir?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cMy nephews, Jake, eight years old, and Tommy, six, were locked out of their home tonight. They showed up at my door at 4:00 a.m. in their pajamas. No shoes. It\u2019s thirty-six degrees outside. They said they\u2019d been out there for about an hour.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAre the children safe now?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThey\u2019re with me. But this is the third time in three months this has happened.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Silence, then the sound of typing. \u201cThe third time, you said?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYes. Their parents, my sister Emma Thompson and her husband Brad, have locked them out before. September 23rd, October 8th, and tonight, November 17th.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>More typing. \u201cDo you have any documentation? Photos, timestamps?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI can send them.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cPlease do. I\u2019m opening a case file now. We\u2019ll need to send a caseworker out to evaluate the children and speak with the parents.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhen?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cFirst thing this morning. Can you keep the children until we arrive?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAbsolutely.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cMr. Sullivan,\u201d her voice was firm but kind. \u201cYou did the right thing by calling us.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>I wasn\u2019t sure about that yet, but I knew I couldn\u2019t\u00a0<span class=\"ng-star-inserted\">not<\/span><span class=\"ng-star-inserted\">\u00a0call.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>At 6:00 a.m., my phone started buzzing. Emma. I didn\u2019t answer. She called again and again. At 6:47 a.m., she left a frantic voicemail.\u00a0<span class=\"ng-star-inserted\">\u201cMark, where are my kids? Brad woke up and they\u2019re gone! Call me back now!\u201d<\/span><span class=\"ng-star-inserted\">\u00a0I deleted it.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>At 7:15 a.m., someone pounded on my door. Brad. I looked through the peephole. He was red-faced, angry, and still in his pajamas. I opened the door but blocked the entrance with my body.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhere are my kids?\u201d he demanded.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cInside, sleeping.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cGet them. We\u2019re going home.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cNo.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>His face darkened. \u201cExcuse me?\u201d<\/p>\n<div class=\"code-block code-block-3\"><\/div>\n<p>\u201cThey\u2019re not going home. Not yet.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYou can\u2019t keep my kids from me!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYou locked them outside in freezing weather. They walked six blocks to get here. This is the third time it has happened.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThat\u2019s none of your business.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYou made it my business when they knocked on my door at 4:00 a.m. shivering.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWe fell asleep! It was an accident!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThree times isn\u2019t an accident, Brad. It\u2019s a pattern.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYou self-righteous\u2014\u201d He stepped forward aggressively. \u201cGive me my kids. Now.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cNo. I\u2019ll call the cops.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cGo ahead.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI already called CPS.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The color drained from his face. \u201cYou did what?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI called Child Protective Services. They\u2019re sending someone out this morning. Jake and Tommy stay with me until they arrive.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYou son of a\u2014\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cGet off my porch before I call the police myself.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>He stared at me, his jaw working, his fists clenched. Then he spun around and stomped away. I watched until he was gone, my hands shaking with adrenaline.<\/p>\n<hr class=\"ng-star-inserted\" \/>\n<p>The caseworkers arrived at 8:43 a.m. Two of them:\u00a0<strong class=\"ng-star-inserted\"><span class=\"ng-star-inserted\">Monica Rivera<\/span><\/strong><span class=\"ng-star-inserted\">, mid-forties, calm and professional, and her supervisor,\u00a0<\/span><strong class=\"ng-star-inserted\"><span class=\"ng-star-inserted\">James Park<\/span><\/strong><span class=\"ng-star-inserted\">, a quiet man in his fifties who took notes constantly.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u201cMr. Sullivan,\u201d Monica extended her hand. \u201cWe spoke on the phone. Thanks for coming.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cCan we see the children?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Jake and Tommy were awake, eating cereal at my kitchen table. They looked small and scared.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cHi, boys,\u201d Monica said gently. \u201cI\u2019m Monica. This is James. We\u2019re here to help. Is it okay if we talk to you for a few minutes?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Jake looked at me, and I nodded. \u201cIt\u2019s okay. Tell them the truth.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Monica interviewed them separately, Jake first, then Tommy. I sat in the living room with James while they talked.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cHow long have you been concerned about the children?\u201d he asked, his pen poised over his notepad.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThree months. Since the first time they showed up here.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAnd you didn\u2019t report it then?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI thought it was a one-time thing,\u201d I admitted, shame coiling in my gut. \u201cMy sister apologized, said it wouldn\u2019t happen again. But it did. Twice more.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cDo you have documentation?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>I pulled out my phone and showed him the photos, the timestamps clear and damning. James took photos of my photos, writing everything down.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cHave you noticed any other concerning behaviors?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBrad is controlling, verbally abusive toward my sister. The kids are afraid of him.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cHave you witnessed any physical altercations?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cNo, but the emotional damage is clear. He yells, demeans Emma in front of the kids, and punishes them for things that aren\u2019t their fault, like being locked out. He told me they \u2018need to learn not to wander off,\u2019 as if this was their fault.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>James wrote that down, too.<\/p>\n<p>Monica came out twenty minutes later. \u201cJake and Tommy\u2019s accounts confirm everything,\u201d she said, her expression grim. \u201cThey\u2019ve been locked out multiple times. They\u2019re afraid to go home.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>My chest tightened. \u201cWhat happens now?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWe open a formal investigation. We\u2019ll interview the parents, inspect the home, and determine if the children are safe. If they\u2019re not, we\u2019ll file for emergency custody and place them with a relative\u2014likely you\u2014until the case is resolved.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Emma showed up at 9:30 a.m. She looked terrible, her eyes swollen from crying. \u201cMark, please. I need to see my kids.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Monica stepped forward. \u201cMrs. Thompson, I\u2019m Monica Rivera with DCFS. We need to speak with you and your husband.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Emma\u2019s face crumpled. \u201cThis is insane. Mark, you called CPS on me?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cOn the situation,\u201d I corrected. \u201cThe boys were locked out three times in freezing weather.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWe didn\u2019t mean to!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIntent doesn\u2019t matter. They could have gotten hypothermia, been hurt, been taken. Do you understand how serious this is?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThey\u2019re fine!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThey\u2019re traumatized! Jake told Monica he\u2019s scared to go home. Does that sound \u2018fine\u2019 to you?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>She started crying, real tears this time. \u201cI\u2019m their mother.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThen act like it.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Brad pulled up ten minutes later, saw the DCFS van, and stormed over. \u201cYou have no right\u2014\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cMr. Thompson,\u201d James stepped in. \u201cWe need to speak with you and your wife. Now.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAbout what?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAbout why your children were locked outside in thirty-six-degree weather at 4:00 a.m.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThat was an accident!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cFor the third time,\u201d Monica said flatly. \u201cThat\u2019s a pattern, Mr. Thompson. Not an accident.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYou can\u2019t take our kids!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWe can and we will if we determine they\u2019re unsafe.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Brad looked at me, pure hatred in his eyes. \u201cThis is your fault.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cNo,\u201d I said, my voice cold. \u201cThis is yours.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>They interviewed Emma and Brad for over an hour. I couldn\u2019t hear everything, but I heard enough. Brad\u2019s voice, loud and defensive: \u201cThey\u2019re my kids! I\u2019ll discipline them however I want!\u201d Monica\u2019s response, calm and firm: \u201cLocking children outside in freezing temperatures isn\u2019t discipline. It\u2019s endangerment.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>At 11:15 a.m., Monica came back inside. \u201cWe\u2019re recommending emergency custody,\u201d she said. \u201cThe children will stay with you pending a court hearing.\u201d<\/p>\n<hr class=\"ng-star-inserted\" \/>\n<p>The court hearing was scheduled for Friday, three days away. Emma called me forty-seven times. I answered once.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cMark, please,\u201d she sobbed. \u201cThey\u2019re my children. I love them.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThen why did you lock them out, Emma?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt was a mistake!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThree mistakes in three months? Do you know what Tommy told the caseworker? He said he\u2019s scared to sleep at night because he doesn\u2019t know if you\u2019ll let him back inside. Does that sound like a \u2018mistake\u2019 to you?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Silence.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cFix yourself, Emma. Get therapy. Leave Brad. Do something. But I\u2019m not letting those kids go back until I know they\u2019re safe.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYou\u2019re ruining my life!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cNo, you ruined theirs. I\u2019m just trying to fix it.\u201d She hung up.<\/p>\n<p>The hearing was brutal. Emma and Brad showed up with their own lawyer, a slick man named Mitchell Barnes. \u201cYour Honor,\u201d Barnes said with a condescending smile. \u201cThis is a gross overreaction by a vindictive uncle with no children of his own. My clients made some minor mistakes, but there\u2019s no evidence of willful neglect.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"ng-star-inserted\"><strong class=\"ng-star-inserted\"><span class=\"ng-star-inserted\">Judge Carol Martinez<\/span><\/strong><span class=\"ng-star-inserted\">, a woman in her sixties with sharp, intelligent eyes, flipped through the case file. \u201cMr. Barnes, are you aware this happened three times?\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u201cYour Honor, accidents happen.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThree times?\u201d She looked at Emma and Brad. \u201cYou \u2018accidentally\u2019 locked your children outside in freezing weather three separate times?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Brad shifted in his seat. \u201cWe\u2019re working on better communication.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cCommunication?\u201d Judge Martinez looked at Monica\u2019s report. \u201cYour son told the caseworker he\u2019s afraid to go home. Your six-year-old said he cries at night because he thinks you\u2019ll lock him out again. Does that sound like a \u2018communication problem\u2019 to you?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Emma started crying. The judge was not impressed. \u201cMrs. Thompson, I\u2019ve read Mr. Sullivan\u2019s statement. I\u2019ve read the DCFS report. I\u2019ve seen the photos. Your children walked six blocks in the dark to escape a situation where they felt unsafe. Explain to me why I shouldn\u2019t terminate your custody right now.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI love my kids,\u201d Emma\u2019s voice broke.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cLove isn\u2019t enough. Love doesn\u2019t keep children warm. Love doesn\u2019t protect them when they\u2019re locked outside at 4:00 in the morning.\u201d She looked at me. \u201cMr. Sullivan, are you prepared to take custody of these children?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYes, Your Honor. Full-time, long-term, as long as they need me.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAnd the children? Do they want to stay with you?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYes, Your Honor. Jake told me he feels safe here. Tommy said he doesn\u2019t want to leave.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Judge Martinez closed the file. \u201cEmergency custody is granted to Mark Sullivan. Mr. and Mrs. Thompson, you will have supervised visitation only, two hours per week. You\u2019ll both complete court-mandated parenting classes and undergo psychological evaluations. We will reconvene in six months to reassess.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cSix months?!\u201d Emma gasped.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBe grateful I\u2019m not terminating your rights entirely. This is your chance to prove you can be trusted. Don\u2019t waste it.\u201d The gavel came down.<\/p>\n<p>Brad\u2019s face was furious. He grabbed Emma\u2019s arm and pulled her toward the exit. But before they left, Emma turned back. \u201cYou\u2019re destroying our family,\u201d she hissed at me.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cNo,\u201d I said, meeting her gaze. \u201cYou did that. I\u2019m just making sure the kids survive it.\u201d<\/p>\n<hr class=\"ng-star-inserted\" \/>\n<p>The next six months were hard. The supervised visits every Saturday were tense and heartbreaking. Emma cried through most of them. Brad barely spoke. The boys were polite, careful, but they never asked to go home. At night, Tommy had nightmares and Jake had anxiety attacks. I got them into therapy with a child psychologist, Dr. Linda Ewan, who worked with them twice a week, helping them process the trauma.<\/p>\n<p>Slowly, they began to heal. Jake joined a soccer team and started making friends. Tommy stopped crying at bedtime. They called me \u201cUncle Mark\u201d at first, then just \u201cMark.\u201d Then one night in March, as I was tucking him in, Tommy mumbled, \u201cGood night, Dad.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>He\u2019d already turned over, probably not even realizing what he\u2019d said. But I did. And something in my chest broke open and began to mend, all at the same time.<\/p>\n<p>The six-month review hearing was in May. Same courtroom, same judge. But this time, Emma and Brad had completed their classes and passed their evaluations.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYour Honor,\u201d Barnes said confidently. \u201cMy clients have done everything required. It\u2019s time to reunite this family.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Judge Martinez looked at the reports. \u201cThe question isn\u2019t whether they\u2019ve changed,\u201d the judge said. \u201cIt\u2019s whether the children feel safe.\u201d She looked at Jake and Tommy, who were sitting next to me, small and quiet. \u201cJake, Tommy, I\u2019d like to ask you both something, and I want you to be honest. No one will be upset with you, no matter what you say.\u201d She paused. \u201cWhere do you want to live?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Jake looked at Emma, then at Brad, then at me. \u201cWith Uncle Mark,\u201d he said quietly.<\/p>\n<p>Emma made a small, broken sound.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cTommy?\u201d the judge asked.<\/p>\n<p>Tommy grabbed my hand. \u201cI want to stay with Uncle Mark.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cCan you tell me why?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBecause he doesn\u2019t lock us out,\u201d Tommy said, his small voice clear as a bell. \u201cAnd he makes us pancakes. And he doesn\u2019t yell.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Judge Martinez closed the file. \u201cMr. and Mrs. Thompson, I\u2019m granting permanent custody to Mark Sullivan.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cNo!\u201d Emma stood up. \u201cThey\u2019re my children!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThey\u00a0<span class=\"ng-star-inserted\">were<\/span><span class=\"ng-star-inserted\">\u00a0your children,\u201d the judge said, her voice firm. \u201cBut you failed to protect them. Mr. Sullivan has provided a safe, stable home, and the children have expressed a clear preference. I will not force them back into a situation where they feel unsafe. You will continue supervised visitation, but custody belongs to Mr. Sullivan permanently.\u201d The gavel came down. Final.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Emma collapsed into her chair, sobbing. Brad just stared at the table, defeated.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYou okay?\u201d I whispered to the boys. They both nodded.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cCan we go home now?\u201d Jake asked. \u201cTo our home? Not your house. Home.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYeah,\u201d I said, my voice thick. \u201cLet\u2019s go home.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>That night, I made spaghetti and meatballs, their favorite. \u201cSo,\u201d I said, sitting down at the table. \u201cWe\u2019re official now. You\u2019re stuck with me.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Jake grinned. \u201cThat\u2019s okay. You\u2019re a pretty good dad.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Dad<span class=\"ng-star-inserted\">. Not uncle.\u00a0<\/span><span class=\"ng-star-inserted\">Dad<\/span><span class=\"ng-star-inserted\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Tommy climbed into my lap. \u201cCan we stay forever?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cForever,\u201d I said. \u201cEven when you\u2019re old and gray and have kids of your own. This is your home. Always.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Jake looked at me, his gaze steady. \u201cThank you,\u201d he said quietly. \u201cFor not making us go back.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYou don\u2019t have to thank me for keeping you safe,\u201d I said. \u201cThat\u2019s what parents do.\u201d Parents, not uncles. That\u2019s what I was now.<\/p>\n<p>Two years later, Emma called. \u201cMark? I left Brad. I\u2019ve been in therapy. I\u2019m\u2026 I\u2019m better. I was wondering if maybe\u2026 I could see them?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cSupervised visitation,\u201d I said. \u201cSame as before.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI was hoping for more.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cNo. Emma, I love you. You\u2019re my sister. But those kids\u2026 they\u2019re happy. They\u2019re safe. They call me Dad. And I\u2019m not going to disrupt that because you finally got your life together.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>There was a long silence. \u201cOkay,\u201d she whispered. \u201cThank you.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>I hung up. Jake walked into the kitchen. \u201cWas that Mom?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYeah.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIs she okay?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cShe\u2019s trying to be.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cDo you think she\u2019ll ever really change?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>I thought about it for a moment. \u201cI don\u2019t know. But it doesn\u2019t matter. You\u2019re here. You\u2019re safe. That\u2019s all that matters.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>He hugged me tight. \u201cI\u2019m glad you answered the door that night.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cMe too, buddy,\u201d I said, holding him close. \u201cMe too.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Brad, a thirty-four-year-old regional sales manager for a pharmaceutical company, made good money, drove a Lexus, and belonged to a gym he never went to. He was also controlling, volatile, and profoundly mean. 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