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At the bottom, the ink was still stark and black:\u00a0Authorized by Colonel Shaina DeWitt, Installation Commander.<\/span><\/p>\n

My father would open this at his Father\u2019s Day brunch. He would be surrounded by family and the specific breed of social climbers who viewed the military as a career path for those who failed to get into the Ivy League. He would glance at it, dismiss it as something practical\u2014and therefore inferior\u2014and then someone, it didn\u2019t matter who, would recognize the seal.<\/p>\n

The trap was primed. The ordinance was live. I just had to wait for Father\u2019s Day.<\/p>\n

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I learned the art of invisibility by the time I was twelve. It wasn\u2019t cruelty, exactly; it was the benign neglect that befalls the child who doesn\u2019t fit the pattern.\u00a0Gregory<\/span><\/strong>\u00a0was the golden boy, a prodigy of compound interest.\u00a0<\/span>Nicole<\/span><\/strong>\u00a0was the baby, charming and litigious from birth. I was just Shaina. Steady. Reliable. Good at following instructions.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cShaina will be fine,\u201d my mother used to say, waving a hand dismissively when friends asked about my future. \u201cShe\u2019s very\u2026 organized.\u201d<\/p>\n

She died when I was nineteen. A quick, brutal cancer that dismantled her in six months. My father remarried within two years to a woman named\u00a0Patricia<\/span><\/strong>, who was pleasant enough but utterly uninterested in stepchildren who were already voting age. The family gatherings continued, minus the one person who might have bothered to look closely at me.<\/span><\/p>\n

I joined ROTC in my sophomore year of college. My father signed the paperwork with a distracted flourish, already late for a tee time.<\/p>\n

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At the bottom, the ink was still stark and black:\u00a0Authorized by Colonel Shaina DeWitt, Installation Commander. My father would open this at his Father\u2019s Day brunch. He would be surrounded by family and the specific breed of social climbers who viewed the military as a career path for those who failed to get into the…<\/p>\n

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