The man shared his story.My fiancée and I have been together for about 3 years. We got engaged 6 months ago. We were doing some planning, and she mentioned,

“Where do you think ’late husband’s name’ pic could go?” I was confused and asked her to clarify.She said she wanted her late husband’s picture at the wedding, she went into more detail, at my request. She wants one of the bridesmaids to hold his picture during the ceremony. As well as having his pic on our table. And when taking pictures, she wants to hold him in most photos.I told her that I didn’t want that, and while I understand he’s important to her, I’d feel uncomfortable with his pictures at our wedding, especially when they’re so prominent. We got into a fight, and she yelled, “I can’t believe you’re jealous! He’s dead!” I decided to postpone the wedding, and honestly, I’m thinking of calling it off all together. People made different suggestions, some even compared with their own experience.Having a memorial table for passed loved ones is one thing… but this is excessive and definitely shows she’s having some emotional struggles.At my wedding we had a single seat with a sign that said “we know you would be here today, if heaven weren’t so far away” and photos of our loved ones who had passed. Saving a seat for them was meaningful and made it feel like they were included in our wedding.